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Mismatched Bridesmaids

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The recent trend of mismatched bridesmaids is hotter than latkes straight from the frying pan. We are seeing the gals dressed beautifully — differently — but beautifully. Brides have many reasons for encouraging this look, including each bridesmaid’s own style and look, size and body shape, and nurturing individuality instead of a cluster of girlfriends. While it can sometimes be easier to just pick out a single dress in a single color and dress your maids in that uniform, coordinating mismatched bridesmaids doesn’t have to be too complicated. They can still be your team as you say “I do” even if they’re dressed in a way that represents them for the reasons they’re your besties in the first place. And in the end, you have a great vision that comes to life down your aisle.

One Color, Many Shades
Have a view for the hue. You can choose a monochromatic color scheme for the dresses by selecting a general color and then differentiate each bridesmaid with a different shade of that color. Working with neutrals? Try beige, champagne, olive, mocha, and cream. Want something bright like pink? You can do salmon, fuchsia, ballet shoe, bubblegum, and rose.

See where this is going? All of the shades complement each other and belong to the parent color, but still showcase their own individual splash. If you’re concerned about the look being too inconsistent, just remember that your maids will most likely carry identical bouquets or you can gift them a piece of jewelry that ties the ensembles together. Take it up a notch and give the gals the same accessories like patterned tights or a sash tied in a bow.

Different Colors, Same Dress
You can still achieve the mismatched look if all your bridesmaids wear the same dress. How? Different colors! If it’s reasonable to put all the girls in the same dress, spice up the look and include splashes of color. Again, the colors are still complementing each other, but they’re changing a single dress to appear as different dresses.

This has been successfully executed with jewel toned or peacock colors. This concept also works well with pastels. The same dress in baby pink, gray, lavender, and cream would be so soft and beautiful. Likewise, a single dress that’s worn in purple, turquoise, magenta, and midnight blue could be breathtaking for a bright and dramatic look.

Different colors in similar dresses were made famous thanks to everyone’s favorite blogger, Carrie Bradshaw of Sex and the City. Remember her wedding? Miranda, Charlotte, and Samantha all wore long, glitzy dresses but each in a different color. The dresses were not exactly the same, but they definitely landed in the same family of dresses: fabulous.

One Color, Many Styles
Another way to change up the individual look of each bridesmaid is to select one color in the same shade, but wear it on any style dress. Pick a color. Purple? Blue? Cappuccino? Great. Now, find dresses that come in that one color. The best way to do this is to choose a single dress designer. Stay within that brand and order at the same time to ensure that your color swatches are consistent. Most designers can accommodate their many dress styles and cuts in one color.

Pick two or three varieties of the dress. Maybe with straps, without straps, and one shouldered. Or long, short, and tea length. Or ruffles, sash, or sweetheart neck. All of these styles are different groupings from the same family. Make sure, though, that the varieties or more or less evenly distributed. The maids should stand out as individual bridesmaids, but not take away from each other or you. Therefore, a bridal party with four short dresses and one long dress may do more to distract than blend, especially if you’re the only one in a long wedding gown. So as you distribute styles of dresses among the bridesmaids, make sure that the same types are sprinkled evenly.

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Other ways to spice up your bridesmaids with different looks: The girls can all wear earrings… but in different colors! They can all have bouquets… but with different flowers! They can all wear one shoe color… but in various styles! Pick a theme and then go wild. You don’t have to make every piece different in a bridesmaid’s look, but stay within a range to maintain the vision. The gals in the first picture below are all wearing the exact same dress style and color. Then, your eye catches their ankles and below and it’s like a party on their feet! Super fun. Underneath, the photos shows the opposite: the bridesmaids are all wearing different dresses within the same style and color scheme, but their tootsies are all hugged by the same shoes! Swoon!

So what do you think? Are you going for a mismatched bridesmaid look? What are some ideas you have for achieving this super hot trend?

Real Jewish Weddings | Boston, MA

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A mutual friend invited Heather and Pete to the Anti Valentine’s Day Party on, of course, Valentine’s Day. Heather remembers being drawn to Pete’s great smile and his somewhat shy and quiet manner. It took him a little while to start talking to her, but once he did, she didn’t want it to end. Pete remembers thinking that Heather was beautiful and so easy to talk to. So he took a chance and asked her out.

Despite the Yankees — Red Sox rivalry between them, Heather and Pete have learned that they are very compatible and have important similarities that shape their relationship. They’ve had a lot of fun traveling and discovering new places together, eating out, or cooking at home. Just being together, and sharing in both the big and little adventures of everyday life is what it’s all about for them.

Fast forward to a lovely evening at dinner, Pete checked his pocket about ten times during the meal, and then, just before dessert, he quietly slid Heather a ring from across the table. She started giggling out of nervousness, and accepted his proposal. They held hands, smiling and laughing the rest of the night. And thus began the journey of planning a Jewish wedding.

Heather and Pete wanted to make sure everyone was up and dancing at the reception so the couple opted to go from the first dance into the Horah and directly into dance music. Speeches and food could wait! Since everyone was on their feet during the Horah, laughing and having a blast hoisting the couple in the air on their chairs, Heather wanted to keep that momentum going by requesting in advance that the DJ continue with “I’ve Got a Feeling” by the Black Eyed Peas. The uplifting dance-worthy music kept everyone on the dance floor!

Mazel tov, Heather and Pete!

Venue- Boston Marriott Newton
Photographer- Shannon Grant Photography
Florist- A Wild Flower by June Rubin
Cake- The Icing on the Cake
Jeweler- Marquis Jewelers
Entertainment / Music- It’s the Music Entertainment by Kevin Richman
Dress- VOWS
Dress Alterations- Anahit
Makeup Artist / Hair Stylist- Charlotte Phinney
Officiant- Deborah Goldman, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant and Multifaith Officiant
Save The Date Magnets- Pear Tree Greetings
Wedding Invitations- Wedding Paper Divas
Tuxedos- Simon & Sons
Ketubah- Kolbo Fine Judaica

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The Wedding Yentas is a proud editorial partner of Two Bright Lights who makes publishing this wedding possible.

  • Lauren says:

    i love this wedding…photography is amazing.

  • Marissa, Fold up flats says:

    what beautiful photos! love her dress, and the bride maids’!

  • Shannon Grant says:

    Thank you so much for sharing Heather and Pete’s wedding! It was an absolute blast to photograph and they’re pretty much the sweetest people alive. Thank you! :)

Planning Your Engagement Photos

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Valentine’s Day was last week so there may be some newly engaged Yentas joining our big online family. If you are one of those newbies with brand new bling on the finger, welcome to The Wedding Yentas! We wish you hearty mazels and hope we can help you with all your Jewish wedding planning needs!

One of the many engagement milestones is a photo shoot, typically with your wedding photographer, that happens at some point before you actually tie the knot. This photo shoot is helpful for both of you: the couple and your hired photographer. You may think you’re comfortable behind a camera, but remember, every photographer has a different style and method, so taking engagement photos gives you and your betrothed a sneak peak into what you can expect from your photographer on the big day. Also, your photographer will learn about how to photograph you. Let’s face it, everyone is different — different angles, features, bodies, comfort levels — and this shoot will also allow your photographer to get a feel for what methods work for capturing you at your best. I know that I would want my photographer to know my good side (right) and if I have extra chins from a weird angle (true) before the big show when the photos truly matter. Plus, whatever, it’s fun.

These shoots are usually included in most photographers’ wedding packages when you book and it’s a good idea to put some thought into personalizing this kind of session. Make sure to ask if your wedding day reservation also includes an engagement shoot and then ask if you receive a DVD of the photos. Some couples may ask to eliminate the session in order to save money, but here’s the thing: a) Usually you can’t do this because photographers have already included this service in their package and rate. b) You wouldn’t be doing yourself any favors because the value of the engagement session is more than just a monetary one. It’s like a rehearsal for the photos for which you’re actually paying and hiring your photographer. So don’t try to have your photographer remove this service and see the price go down. It’s probably not possible and you’re only cutting your nose to spite your face. And let’s face it, that face needs to look good for the wedding!

Also, keep in mind that engagement photos can be more than just fun and games. You can actually use them for wedding-related tangibles. Many couples like to incorporate their engagement shots in save the dates, escort cards, table numbers, guestbooks, or sign-in boards.

So, let’s fast forward: You’ve confirmed that your photographer does indeed shoot engagement photos and you’re amped to get started. What do you need to know?

  • Pick a date! Go with a date that doesn’t cause you to rush, so make sure your schedule is clear. Also, consider weather and how that plays into your shoot. If you know you want to wear cute, summery dresses, it’s probably not best to book a date in February. Make sure to think about where you want to shoot and how the date will affect your location as well. Some places are closed on the weekends. Check before!
  • Speaking of places, you can shoot your engagement photos anywhere, but maybe think of a location that’s special to you and your partner. We’ve seen engagement photos in the ballparks of the couple’s favorite baseball team! Perhaps you and your fiance are alum of the same university or met through Hillel at college; you might want to walk around campus and take photos at your favorite spots. Maybe you’re into cycling and the outdoors; we’ve seen adorable photos of couples hiking or on bikes by the beach. Think about colorful locations like piers or carnivals. The park usually has great color and open space as well. The possibilities are endless and we encourage you to think outside the box.
  • Confirm with your photographer what colors or patterns work on camera. Some may say no busy prints or white colors depending on their style and post-processing methods. This is important because you want to be sure that what you wear will be appropriately represented in your finished product. You also may be able to have two or three different looks in your shoot. This is something else you should confirm with your photographer. If you do have multiple looks, make sure you find a variety of outfits to wear. It’s fun to see engagement photos that feature the couple in casual and formal wear.
  • Be yourself! Don’t try to mimic your favorite model or celebrity. You’ll probably just end up looking silly (um, been there, done that). Instead, just smile and have fun! If you’re actually, really, truly having fun, your photos will look like that you are actually, really, truly having fun! Forcing poses or pouty lips doesn’t work. If you and your partner have fun acting goofy together, then let out your inner silly. If you’re more on the shy side and not really wild and crazy, that’s okay, too! Just be your usual in-love selves and the goodness will pour through the photos!

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*Fabulous photography by Kim Fox.

WIN A KETUBAH!! The Couples

And here they are! The couples who need your votes in order to win a prize of $300 toward a ketubah of their choice from MP Artworks!

Here’s what they need you to do between now and February 29, 2012 through 11:59 p.m. PST:

The couple with the most amount of votes by February 29th at 11:59 p.m. PST will win the prize!

The winning couple will be announced on March 1! Super exciting, right?

Good luck, lovebirds. Oo la la!

Alison and Jordan: December 30, 2012

Jessica and Joe: TBD 2013

Kelley and Ben: April 29, 2012

Jennifer and Eric: October 21, 2012

Rachel and Mike: December 8, 2012

Rebecca and Daniel: July 1, 2012

Jessica & Harrison: November 17, 2012

Shayna & Jesse: November 3, 2012

Karen and Perry: March 2012

Jamie and Patrick: October 27, 2012

Camille & AJ: May 27, 2012

Hilla and Dror: September 3, 2012

Shari & Evan: November 17, 2012

  • Ilene says:

    Camille and AJ!

  • AJ Siegel says:

    Camille & AJ: May 27, 2012

  • Rachel says:

    Rachel & Mike :) )

  • Nicole says:

    My vote is for Rachel & Mike!

  • Larry Siegel says:

    I would love to vote for Camille & AJ.
    Best of luck

  • Leanna says:

    I vote for Rachel and Mike: December 8, 2012

  • Elyse says:

    Rachel & Mike!!!

  • Brett says:

    Camille and AJ. They’re the best!

  • Jen says:

    Camille & AJ !!!

  • Rachel says:

    Allison and Jordan!!!!!!

  • Mike M says:

    Camille & AJ !!!

  • Trey says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Adam "Kituba" Kane says:

    Mike and Rachel should DEFINITELY win. They are beautiful.

  • Sharon Efron says:

    Camille and AJ all the way. They have worked so hard in their life to get to where they are and to really enjoy their day. Anything extra would be such a great help. They are ambitious, fun and exemplify what a young couple should be for a long married life. They waiting so long for this- this should be theirs!

  • Michele says:

    I know I am prejudiced, but I don’t care. As far as I am concerned, there is no more deserving couple than AJ and Camille. They exemplify two young people who any parent would be proud to say that they are their children. Can’t wait for May 27, 2012.

  • Yuliya says:

    My vote is for Camille and AJ! It’s about time someone took that boy off the market :)

  • Rachel says:

    Jessica & Joe!!

  • Michelle says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!!!!!

  • Shari says:

    Shari & Evan!!!!

  • Shari says:

    I have to say… it’s so exciting to see so many adorable jewish couples on this site — MAZEL TOV you guys!!!

  • Christine says:

    Rachel & Mike!

  • Desiree says:

    Go Rachel and Mike!

  • JT says:

    Yay Shari & Evan!

  • Carly says:

    I want Evan and Shari to win, but congratulations to everyone!

  • Samantha f says:

    Mazel tov Evan and Shari!!!! Hope you get the ketubah!

  • Robin says:

    Camille and AJ, they are the cutest couple ever!

  • Jon says:

    Camille and AJ get my vote

  • Biana Shteyn says:

    Rachel & Mike (12/8/2012) Should Win!!! Best Couple :)

  • Julie Kustom says:

    Rachel and Mike!

  • Stephanie says:

    Rachel & Mike!!!

  • Jenn says:

    Rachel and Mike should win!

  • Kaitlyn says:

    Rachel & Mike!

  • Jessica Loew says:

    Rachel & Mike!! :)

  • Sarah says:

    Shari and Evan!

  • sharon says:

    Alison & Jordan!

  • rachel tiran says:

    Shari and Evan should totally win! They are a great couple!

  • Russ Backes says:

    Racheal and Mike Dec 8, 2012. Should win!

  • Elena says:

    Shari and Evan! Woo-hoo!!

  • Jesse Kane says:

    Rachel and Mike (12/8/12) should win. They met at a Yom Kippur break the fast. How romantic !

  • Jeni says:

    Way to go little brother Andrew Siegel and future sister-in-law Camille Sauer. This is my official vote for you!! 5-27-12

  • Ryan says:

    AJ and Camille, FTW!

  • Joe Erle says:

    Jess and joe!!

  • Parker says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Dotti says:

    Shari and Evan!

  • Leah says:

    Shari and Evan are a wonderful couple – I hope they win!

  • Alexa says:

    I vote for Jen and Eric, one of the cutest couples I know! I can’t wait to see the two of them get married :)

  • Tracey Goldstein says:

    I vote for Hilla and Dror who are getting married in Israel! Good luck!

  • JLC says:

    Camille and AJ! Congrats, AJ. :-)

  • Rachel says:

    Yay Camille and AJ!!

  • Adam Tesser says:

    Yeah AJ and Camille, you are so smart and beautiful!

  • Danielle says:

    Vote for Camille & AJ!

  • Andrea says:

    I vote for Jen and Eric!!!!!

  • Hillary says:

    Camille & AJ!

  • Kate W says:

    I vote for Jen & Eric!

  • Alissa says:

    My vote is for Shari & Evan: November 17, 2012!

  • Sara Berg says:

    Camille and AJ — wishing you all the best!

  • Dana says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Janice Kane says:

    I vote for Rachel Kane and Michael Frieder. This couple not only met at a temple, but they are committed to living their lives Jewishly and raising Jewish children. Their wedding is on 12/8/12.
    Sincerely,
    Her Mom (who else??)

  • Amanda says:

    Voting for Jen and Eric 10/21/12. Best couple and best engagement story! Couldn’t think of a more perfect couple to be honored with a free ketubah!

  • Jonathan says:

    I vote for Mike & Rachel (12/8/12). They are a hard working and beautiful couple.

  • Elissa says:

    Camille and AJ!!! Congrats, guys!

  • Karen Schneider says:

    Of course I want myself, Karen and Perry to win

  • Mike F says:

    MIKE & RACHEL!!! :)

  • Abby says:

    Rachel & Mike!

  • Rachel says:

    Mike and Rachel should win!!

  • Aimee Kane says:

    I’m voting for Rachel and Mike to win this contest :)

  • Dora Levin says:

    Rachel and Mike should win

  • Sarah says:

    Rachel and Mike!

  • Ruth Fein says:

    Like Mike & Rachel 12-08-12!!

    Super cute!

  • Shaun says:

    Jennifer and Eric

  • Joshua says:

    Jennifer and Eric! By far the cutest and most romantic Jews I have ever seen

  • Matthew LeVine says:

    Jennifer and Eric should win because her face in that picture is classic, and the enthusiasm and excitement is real. I know this because she called me just after that happened, and she could not hide her excitement!

  • Melissa says:

    Rachel and Mike!!

  • Paula says:

    Rachel and Mike should win!

  • Iris says:

    Hands down, Kelley and Ben!!!!!!! Two great people who deserve all the best to start the rest of their lives together!

  • Rob says:

    Rachel and Mike: December 8, 2012

  • Sara says:

    I vote for A J and Camille! <3

  • vickie says:

    Mike & Rachel should win!

  • Perry Burk says:

    Karen & Perry

  • Valerie Easton says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry*!!!

  • Dan says:

    Jennifer & Eric!!!!

  • Ann Feliciano says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Alison Goldfarb says:

    Alison & jordan

  • Cheryl says:

    I vote for Kelley & Ben (April 29, 2012). Good luck and best wishes to all!

  • randee skloff says:

    I think that Kelley and Ben should win! They’re a fantastic couple! And what a fantastic way to start their lucky lives together!

  • barbara says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Beth jagtiani says:

    Kelley and Ben!!

  • Barbara B. says:

    I would love for my son Perry and soon to be daughter in law Karen to win

  • Jo Lawton says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Elan says:

    Kelley and Ben!

  • Lemor says:

    Go shari and Evan!! Mazel tov :)

  • LW says:

    I vote for Kelley and Ben:)

  • Gwendolyn Tundermann says:

    I’m going to vote for Jennifer & Eric because I love her reaction! Too cute!

  • Nanci says:

    I vote for Kelley & Ben!!!

  • Diane Monheit says:

    I vote for Kelly and Ben!

  • heather c says:

    I vote to Karen and Perry!!

  • Lakshmi says:

    Even and Shari for the win!

  • Kimberly says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry!

  • Nj says:

    Shayna and Jesse! Classic!!

  • Yousuf says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Marissa says:

    Go Shayna and Jesse!

  • Rebecca says:

    Shari & Evan!

  • Nicola says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Rilda says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry they are so nice xxx

  • Jordan says:

    I vote for Jordan and Alison!!!

  • Sammy says:

    Kelley and Ben !

  • Jamie says:

    Kelley and Ben are perfect for each other- yin and yang! Plus they are committed to giving back to the community. I love them and know that they would so appreciate this!!

  • Evan Diamond says:

    I vote for Shari and Evan. They are a great couple and I wish them well.

  • Joan says:

    I vote for Kelley and Ben

  • Stephanie says:

    I vote Shari & Evan!

  • Leila Yodkovik says:

    I vote for Kelley and Ben!

  • Cyndi says:

    Perry and Karen get my vote!

  • Rachael says:

    I vote for Shayna and Jesse!!

  • Anna says:

    Shayna and Jesse!!

  • Pat MacLeod says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Benjamin Strnlieb says:

    Mazal Tov to Jordan and Alison!

  • Grace says:

    Shari & Evan are the cutest!

  • sharon says:

    I vote for Kelley and Ben. big day is 4/29/12

  • sharon says:

    i vote for Jordan & Alison

  • Robin says:

    i vote for kelley and ben

  • Julia Smith says:

    Shari & Evan get my vote!

  • Lara says:

    Love this! Kelley and Ben get my vote!!

  • Nikki says:

    Perry and Karen all the way

  • Diana says:

    Definitely Shayna & Jesse!!!

  • Anne says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Michael Fromm says:

    Jessica and Harrison should WIN!!!!

  • Julio Liberman says:

    Jordan Sternlieb and Alison Goldfarb are a great couple and are well deserving of a free ketubah. Grandpa Julio

  • sherry says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Lauren says:

    Congrats Shari and Evan! I hope you win, you have my vote!

  • Alexandra Vertti says:

    My vote goes to Joe & Jessica!

  • lori says:

    Jessica & Harrison

  • Maja says:

    Harrison and Jess!!

  • Liane Sternlieb says:

    Here is a vote for my favorite couple!!! Love you Jordan and Alison.
    MOM

  • judy says:

    I vote for Rachel and Mike.
    They are committed to their Judiasm and met in Temple.

    Judy Tritel

  • Jessica says:

    My vote goes to Jess and Harrison!!

  • Sally says:

    Jess and Harrison all the way! Mazel tov to the beautiful couple!

  • Rachelle says:

    I think Jessica & Harrison are the sweetest !

  • Minda Lake says:

    I cast my vote for Jessica and Harrison!

  • Sara says:

    I vote for Harrison and Jess!

  • Stevan says:

    Voting for Jess & Harrison. Just look at that cake!

  • Deb says:

    I have to vote for my favorite couple Harrison and Jess! Lots of love!

  • Lilly Sternlieb says:

    Jordan and Alison should win this by far!!! They are the best cousins anyone can have.
    Lilly

  • Kelly Sternlieb says:

    WE love Jordan and Alison. They are our pick for the Ketubah. Mazel tov.
    Kelly

  • Tim says:

    Mu vote is for Jess and Joe!!!!

  • Bethany says:

    Hope Harrison & Jessica win the ketubah!!!

  • Jake Antokal says:

    Jess and Harrison definitely get my vote! Love you both!

  • Jillian says:

    Kelley and Ben!

  • Ronni says:

    Jordan and Alison

  • Erin Jacobs says:

    Jessica and Joe so sweet!

  • Antoinette says:

    Jess & Harrison!

  • Hayley Greenberg says:

    Harrison & Jess deserve to win this!!!

  • jennifer gonzales says:

    I vote for Jessica and Joe!

  • Mandy Streeting says:

    I vote for Shari and Evan

  • Tania says:

    I think Jessica and Joe: TBD 2013 deserve it!!!! Pick them!

  • Joan says:

    Camille and AJ … That’s who I am voting for

  • Joan A says:

    Camille and AJ get my vote

  • Jen says:

    Vote for shayna and jesse!! Mazel tov.

  • Jennifer Laking says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen!!!

  • Jonathan says:

    Jessica and Harrison should win!

  • Alexandria A. says:

    Jessica & Harrison!

  • miriam liberman says:

    Congratulations Jordan & Alison,

    We love you and wish you the best in life.

    Love, Uncle E and Aunt Mir

  • Ashlee says:

    I want Alison and Jordan to win. They are the cutest!

  • Melinda says:

    Alison and Jordan… Whoop Whoop!! xoxox

  • Mark & Shelley Stern says:

    Jordan & Alison are the best! Yeaaaaaaaaaa

  • Antoinette says:

    Jessica & Harrison

  • Dianne says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry!

  • Elana Erle says:

    Joe & Jessica have the best pic. I vote for them.

  • Belinda Hise says:

    I vote Perry and Karen

  • anna says:

    I Vote for Perry and Karen

  • Svetlana says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Kelsey says:

    Shari and Evan should win!

  • Fernando says:

    Rachel and Mike! Also, Mike and Rachel are pretty great

  • MelC says:

    Mike and Rachel! Fo Sho!!!!

  • Melissa says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Arielle says:

    A vote for Jen and Eric!

  • Brad says:

    A vote for Jen and Eric!

  • Nomi freed says:

    Congratulations Kelley and Ben.

  • Alison Bension says:

    Kelley and Ben: April 29, 2012

  • Jesse says:

    Jessica & Harrison! Good Luck!!

  • Jay says:

    i vote for karen and perry

  • Samantha Lou says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Valentina Baird says:

    I vote for Jessica and Harrison!! Love u guys!!

  • Brian Nicholson says:

    Jessica and Harrison have a cake in their photo, I believe that qualifies them to win.

  • Linda says:

    Voting for Harrison and Jessica – 11.17.12

  • serena debolt says:

    KAREN AND PARRY are my vote

  • Lori Kernan says:

    Jessica and Harrison! may you be blessed always!

  • Alison Needleman says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!!!

  • GINNIE LANDAU says:

    HARRISON AND JESS

  • wendy fried says:

    “i vote for harrison and jess” .

  • jen says:

    Perry and Karen

  • billiejo willequer says:

    i vote for karon and perry

  • mario medina says:

    : I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Shelley & Mark Stern- says:

    wow-all the couples were so great but after debating which one was the best I have to give our votes to Jordan & Alison—soooooooooo cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Mike says:

    I vote for Evan and Shari ( Nov 17, 2012)

  • anne hill says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Dan says:

    Jessica and Harrison!

  • Meagan says:

    Alison and Jordan!!

  • Cyd says:

    I want Jess and Harrison to win!

  • Melinda says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • steph says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Bffer says:

    Alison and Jordan!

  • Debbie says:

    Voting for Alison and Jordan

  • Thw Weiners says:

    Good Luck to
    Alison & Jordan
    December 30,2012

  • Melissa Cawthorne says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry!

  • Melissa salsgiver says:

    Vote for karen and perry

  • Leslie Milwicz says:

    I vote for Alison and Jordan

  • dwolff says:

    i vote for jordan and alison!

  • Ido Mart says:

    Definitely Hilla & Dror

  • amy p says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Rosat Catherine says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Sarah Shelley says:

    I vote for Shari & Evan

  • Brendan Peterson says:

    Perry and Karen all the way

  • Marisa says:

    Kelly and ben

  • Linda says:

    Shari & Evan are so deserving!

  • eleanor gacutan says:

    i vote for karen and pery

  • roy antoun says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry :) wish you all the good luck

  • Cris W says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

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  • Laura says:

    Definitely Jordan and Allison!!!

  • Ariane says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Mitch says:

    Jordan and Allison

  • Jordyn says:

    Jordan and Allison

  • Vika says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry!

  • gemmie says:

    Karen and Perry all the way!

  • Terryll Rex says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Marian says:

    Jessica and Harrison

  • Tracey says:

    Perry & Karen all the way

  • Morissa says:

    I vote for Hilla and Dror, a most fantastic couple whose wedding I cannot wait to celebrate!!!!!

  • Dan says:

    Jessica & Harrison you guys look wonderful! You get my vote!!

  • john says:

    i vote for perry and karen!

  • Lynn says:

    Perry & Karen have my vote

  • Edith Delgado says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Cara says:

    I vote for Harrison and Jess!!!

  • yael says:

    shari and evan

  • Melanie Wilson says:

    Karen and Perry all the way

  • Dana says:

    I vote for the beautiful couple, Shari and Evan!!!!

  • Melanie says:

    My vote is for Jess and Harrison! They deserve it! Love you guys!

  • Emily says:

    Jessica and Harrison!!!

  • Karina says:

    I voted for Karen and Perry

  • Robyn Lapa Schamberg says:

    Harrison and Jessica have my vote!!

  • Shivann says:

    Shayna & Jesse all the way! :)

  • Diane Dobbins says:

    My vote is for Ben and Kelly – wedding date April 29. He swept her off her feet and proposed on her birthday at Versailles in the city of love, Paris, France. Viva l’amour!!

  • dawn pelsinger says:

    my votes for Jess and Harrison

  • Sheila Dreyfuss says:

    I vote for Ben and Kelly.

  • Debbie says:

    perry & karen

  • Michael says:

    Jessica and Harrison should win! They are adorable!

  • MDR says:

    Alison & Jordan!!!

  • Carly says:

    I vote for Jordan & Allison… congrats!

  • Erin says:

    I vote for the beautiful couple Hilla and Dror!

  • Doris Weiner says:

    Grandma Doris says nothing could make me happier than helping Jess & Harrison win this!!!!!

  • Sherry says:

    A vote for Harrison and Jess from the Wicked Step who love you….good luck!

  • Helen S. says:

    Best of luck Karen & Perry

  • Andrea says:

    I vote for Harrison and Jessica.

  • Terry says:

    Alison and Jordan. Yay,

  • Tina says:

    Mike and Rachel should win!!!!!

  • Jackie says:

    I vote for Jamie and Patrick!! All the way! Most loving couple I know<3

  • Roo says:

    Jamie and Patrick: October 27, 2012 – these two should SO get it!

  • Elena says:

    Jamie & Patrick!!

  • Lynn Larose says:

    Jamie and Patrick should be the winners!

  • Brandon H says:

    Jamie and Patrick should definitely win this, they are the most perfect couple EVER!

  • Angie Deapen says:

    Rebecca & Daniel!

  • Jeff says:

    Rebecca and Daniel: July 1, 2012

  • Kim says:

    Shari and Evan!

  • Robley says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!!

  • Casey Elise says:

    Jamie and Patrick FTW!

  • Marcie says:

    Alison & Jordan!

  • Caitlin says:

    Shari and Evan!!!!!!!!!

  • Rebecca says:

    I vote for Rebecca and Daniel! :)

  • sharon says:

    Voting for Daniel and Rebecca!

  • Charna Blumberg says:

    Mazel tov to all of the couples. My vote is for Rebecca and Daniel.

  • Carol G says:

    Rebecca & Daniel are the most excited Jewish couple in the world planning their wedding….besides her Sister & her Fiance.

    Signed,
    MOBs
    Mother of the Brides
    MoM

  • Kit Mintz says:

    Rebecca & Daniel – Wedding date July 1, 2012. Definately the cutest couple.
    Her expression is priceless

  • Dave says:

    I vote for Kelley and Ben is a vote for love!

  • Sam says:

    my vote is for Rebecca & Daniel who will wed on July 1, 2012

  • Sandy M says:

    Rebecca , I hope you win.
    Daniel and you are a perfect pair.

    Sandy M

  • Martha says:

    I vote Rebecca and Daniel

  • Anna Shabtay says:

    Hi! I vote for Rebecca and Daniel! They met at my wedding!!

  • Stephanie says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!! Love you!!!Stephanie

  • Judy Rosenberg says:

    I vote for Jamie and Patrick who are getting married on October 27, 2012. Her father and I just celebrated our 38th wedding anniversary under the chupah at Temple Sinai in Delray Beach, Fl. We know that Jamie and Pat will follow in our footsteps and having a beautiful ketubah is just the beginning of a beautiful life together.

  • JANET ZWEBEN says:

    i vote for jessica <3 harrison!!!! they are a wonderful couple!!! wishing them all the happiness life has to offer!!!

  • JANET ZWEBEN says:

    jessica and harrison!!! good luck!!!

  • Karen Roy says:

    Best of luck to Rebecca and Daniel!!

  • Laurie says:

    I vote for Rebecca and Daniel!!!

  • Keylaundra says:

    I’m voting for Kelley and Ben!!!

  • Linda says:

    Go Rebecca & Daniel!!

  • Dan says:

    REBECCA AND DANIEL!!!!!

  • Julie Spechler says:

    I think Jamie and Patrick should win!

  • marsha says:

    A vote for Jessica & Harrison:

  • Julie Scharff says:

    Rebecca & Daniel; July 1, 2012

  • Mar says:

    Shayna & Jesse!

  • shirley mills says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry)

  • Sylvia and Bubba Albert says:

    We vote for Daniel and Rebecca. They are an awesome couple and are so desreving of a beautiful ketubah. They will build their home on the highest of Jewish values.

  • Jane says:

    Harrison and Jess get my vote!!!!!

  • Kelly says:

    Karen and Perry for the win!!

  • Cidney says:

    I vote for Rebecca Gerrick and Daniel Conroy!!

  • peachy rudberg says:

    Rebecca and Daniel are the VERY BEST
    couple to win this contest! Rebecca is a nurse and Daniel is a student and certainly this is one less expense for two VERY HARD WORKING AND DESERVING COUPLE. THEY ARE THE MOST FUN! and so VERY MUCH IN LOVE!. SO PLEASE GIVE MUCH CONSIDERATION TO THIS YOUNG
    COUPLE!!!
    PEACHY RUDBERG

  • Sophie says:

    Daniel and Rebecca!!!!!!!

  • Laura A. says:

    Daniel and Rebecca!

  • Margot Cupaioli says:

    Love Rebecca and Daniel!!!!

  • Amy says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!

  • April LaCroix says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Marilyn says:

    I vote for Rebecca & Daniel!

  • Jonathan says:

    Rebecca and Daniel

  • Kris says:

    Rebecca and Daniel…….why yes they should win!!!!

  • tahana letica says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen Schneider

  • david says:

    Jess and Harrison Rule

  • Joy says:

    I vote for Daniel and Rebecca!

  • kirsten says:

    Congrats Rebecca and Daniel! So excited for you! Hope u win the contest!

  • Susan says:

    Rebecca and Daniel, 7-1-12!

  • Rick says:

    Jessica and Harrison,two great people

  • Gayle says:

    Vote for Daniel and Rebecca

  • amy says:

    My vote is for Alison and Jordan!

  • Joni says:

    My vote goes to Rebecca and Daniel!!

  • Eric says:

    Jess & Harrison

  • Mr. Goldstein says:

    Rebecca and Daniel for sure. You see those smiles…they have ketubah written all over them!

  • Laura Lightfoot says:

    I vote for Rebecca and Daniel!!!!!!

  • Mady says:

    Mike and Rachel should win!!

  • Christina Sicard says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!!

  • Annette Rogers says:

    Yay! Rebecca and Daniel are the cutest and most fun couple. I’m so happy for them and I hope they win!!!!

  • tara mills says:

    : I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Carol says:

    I want Alison and Jordan to win.

  • Martin says:

    Rebecca and Daniel: July 1, 2012!

  • Amanda says:

    Hilla and Dror. Two beautiful and artistic souls deserving of a beautiful and artistic ketubah.

  • Rebecca Lascoe says:

    I vote for Alison and Jordan.

  • sam burwell says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Mela R says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry :)

  • Samantha Christensen says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen!

  • Adele says:

    My vote is for Alison and Jordan. Even the horses look in love. Mazel Tov to all of the couples!

  • Bob says:

    I think the most romantic couple is Alison and Jordan. They get my vote.

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  • Dorothy Mcmanigal says:

    rebecca and daniel

  • juanita says:

    rebecca and daniel! they’re the best!!!!

  • Theodofa Thompson says:

    Rebecca and Daniel are a lovely couple and deserve to win……#TEAM REBECCA AND DANIEL

  • MICHAEL CAIRNS says:

    REBECCA AND DANIEL

  • Marilyn says:

    Rebecca and Daniel

  • Pedro D'Armas says:

    Jamie & Patrick should win!

    Great Photo!!

  • VANESSA MARQUEZ says:

    I WANT REBECCA AND DANIEL TO WIN!!!! GO TEAM!!!!

  • Karen Thom says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry !

  • Shawn Martin says:

    Jamie and Patrick: October 27, 2012!

  • Andrea Darlow says:

    Jamie and Patrick!

  • Lori says:

    Love Daniel and Rebecca! They are an amazing and fun couple! Can’t wait for them to join together in marriage!

  • Leslie says:

    Rebecca and Daniel

  • Michael Nurenberg says:

    Rebecca and daniel

  • steph says:

    I vote for Shari & Evan!

  • kathleen says:

    rebecca and daniel

  • Joel Berman says:

    I think Jamie and Patrick should win. They are a wonderful couple.

  • Stephanie La Plante says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • shannon Holley says:

    Rebecca and Daniel are a very deserving couple. They are very devoted and hard workers in their fields

  • Suzie Myers says:

    Rebecca and Daniel

  • Simone says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Rani M says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!!

  • elizabeth brooks says:

    Rebecca & Daniel :)

  • Nitty Gbro says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen ;)

  • Katie Boguslawski says:

    Rebecca & Daniel

  • Laura Bischof says:

    I want Rebecca & Daniel to win!

  • Sarah Miller says:

    Rebecca and Daniel for the win!

  • Sindy says:

    Shari & Evan!!

  • Steven says:

    Evan and Shari

  • Heidi says:

    I want Jessica and Harrison to win a ketubah!

  • J. Sternlieb says:

    I vote for Alison & Jordan!

  • Anne says:

    Rebecca and Daniel really deserve this!

  • Sharra Weaver says:

    Rebecca and Danirel need to win this contest!

  • Bobby says:

    I vote for Karen and Perry

  • Ingrid says:

    I vote for karen and perry!

  • Stacie says:

    We love you guys – hope you win!!!

  • Stacie Dennis says:

    can’t wait for the big day!!!

  • Stacie Dennis says:

    Shari and Evan – hope you win!!!

  • SDennis says:

    Shari and Evan – Can’t wait for the big day!!!

  • Yash says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Jency John says:

    Rebecca and Daniel….you are such a cute couple…!!! God bless you..!!!!

  • Rami says:

    I am voting for Rebecca and Daniel. You go guys!

  • Jordan says:

    My vote goes to my best friend Rebecca and her fiance Daniel, my favorite couple ever!!!

  • Carrie Friedman says:

    I vote for Kelley and Ben !!

  • amy says:

    Camille & AJ!

  • Lindsey says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!

  • Stephanie Guy says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen!

  • Cindy says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!

  • Alex says:

    My vote is for REBECCA AND DANIEL!!

  • Jay says:

    Evan and shari

  • Burt Hanson says:

    Go Perry and Karen!

  • Cheryl vincent says:

    My vote is for jordan and alison. The cutest couple

  • Olivia Vickers says:

    Rebecca and Daniel should totally win!
    GO BECCA AND DANIEL!

  • Toni says:

    I Rebecca and Daniel to win!

  • Anita W. says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen!

  • pradeep thoppil says:

    Rebecca and Daniel to win!!!

  • roz says:

    go Jennifer and Eric!

  • helen w says:

    I am rooting for Perry and Karen to win!

  • Vanessa says:

    REBECCA AND DANIEL ALL THE WAY!!!

  • DON says:

    Vote for Rebecca and Daniel!!

  • Chuck says:

    Congrats to Daniel and Rebecca!! We couldn’t be happier for you :)

  • Jenny says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Susan says:

    Jessica & Harrison!!!

  • Ellen says:

    My vote is for Rebecca and Daniel!

  • Jamie says:

    My vote goes to Perry and Karen. :)

  • Allison says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Elizabeth says:

    Jamie & Patrick should win!

  • Tracey says:

    I really want Rebecca and Daniel to win!!!

  • Sydney says:

    REBECCA GERRICK AND DANIEL CONROY!!!!! WOOOOO

  • Dana says:

    My vote is for HILLA AND DROR (9/3/12)! It began with a thoughtful relationship, led to a creative proposal, and onto planning an amazing wedding in Israel!

  • jay says:

    Evan and Shari please

  • Fletch says:

    Uncle Evan and Shari!!!!!

  • Julia says:

    I vote for Shari and Evan!!!

  • Rebecca Solomon says:

    Jamie and Patrick are a wonderful couple and totally deserve a beautiful ketubah!!

  • Alyssa Marie says:

    Votes for Rachel and Mike!!!!

  • Kaira says:

    Rebbeca an Daniel!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Aimee says:

    Mike & Rachel (12/8/12) should win!

  • Adam says:

    Harrison and Jess!

  • Tim says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • daren says:

    I vote for Karen & Perry

  • Leah J. says:

    My vote is for Karen and Perry :)

  • Jade says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen!!

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  • sirrita says:

    rebecca and daniel r the winners

  • Kamala says:

    Rebecca and Daniel

  • Melinda says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!! yay!!!!

  • Sarah says:

    Rebecca and Daniel should totally win!!!

  • Tina Ehler says:

    Rebekah and Daniel!!!!!

  • Matthew L Adame says:

    Rebecca and Daniel ! Good Luck !

  • daphne kirungi says:

    I want rebecca and Danniel to win

  • Fatima Bah says:

    Rebecca and Daniel

  • Kay Saslawsky says:

    My vote is for Daniel and Rebecca…go guys!

  • cheryl says:

    Daniel Conroy and Rebecca Gerrick !

  • Emily J. says:

    Rebecca and Daniel to win it all!

  • Katie Erickson says:

    Rebecca and Daniel to win it!!
    Go Rangers!!

  • Rebecca says:

    I vote for Perry and Karen

  • Marlene Gerson says:

    I vote for Rebecca and Daniel!!!!!!

  • RAUVI says:

    Rebecca and Daniel!!!

  • Terri Fetcko says:

    Rebecca & Daniel

  • Dan J says:

    I vote for Rebecca and Daniel. They deserve this!

  • Rachel says:

    Rebecca & Daniel!!!!! Best of luck!

  • susannah schwartz says:

    We are SO excited for you Rebecca and Daniel!!

  • marianne nozell says:

    we are voting for rebecca and daniel

  • Nicole Hanna says:

    I want Karen and Perry to win :) !! What a lovely couple

  • Stephany Martinez says:

    Rebecca and Daniel to win

  • Susan and Neal says:

    Rebecca and Daniel are the best! Mazel Tov.

    Susan and Neal Jackson

  • conor says:

    i want karen and perry to win

  • jess says:

    i vote for karen and perry!

  • Tim says:

    Rebecca and Daniel are the best couple!

  • Erin says:

    Rebecca and Daniel for the W!

  • Nicki says:

    Hilla and Dror all the way! Love you guys and you deserve to win!!! xoxo Nicki

  • Rachel says:

    Jennifer and Eric! <3

Dressing the Mother of the Bride or Groom

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Andrea’s Couture, the sister salon to Andrea’s Fashions, serving women of Beverly Hills for 37 years, has opened in Corona del Mar offering the luxury of exquisite customized gowns in the convenience of Orange County. Women are treated to exceptional customer service by this family team as they choose from close to 400 dress options (various skirt patterns, necklines, lengths, etc.) to customize their style and over 250 colors before being custom fit using 22 measurements. This allows for endless combinations, creating a one-of-a-kind gown guaranteed to fit impeccably. The salon also offers select accessories.

One of the most exciting days for a mother is the day her child gets engaged. Everyone is very excited for the upcoming nuptials and the planning begins. Then months of planning go by and everything gets wrapped up. However, one of the last things on the list is usually the mother’s attire. I am not really sure why it happens like this, but it always seems to be the case. The majority of mothers do not think of their own gown until the last moments and expect to find the perfect look for an event that takes a year to plan by just taking a quick trip to the local mall. What a mother doesn’t know is that it takes just as much effort to find her gown as it did to find the bride’s gown.

It is important to keep in mind that half of your guests have never met you. It is my job to make sure it is obvious to everyone at the wedding that your role is the mother of the bride/groom and to make you feel your best on the day of the wedding. The photographs will last forever and so should your amazing memories of that day.

It is evident that there is no easy answer to the dilemmas mothers face in their gown search. Sleeve or no sleeve? Short or long? To match or not to match the bridal party?

There truly is no short answer. However, Andrea’s Couture boasts over 37 years of experience helping ladies make the right choice.

Here is my professional take on these questions:

Sleeve or No sleeve?
The mother of today is more youthful than ever before. After all 50 is the new 40, right? However, very few ladies accept that there is a normal change in the texture of their skin that occurs over time. Therefore, there is a bit of an epidemic of “bye-bye” arm obsession. (Ladies, the only one looking at your “bye-bye” arms is you). Hot flashes are bad enough, so why add fabric to compound the issue? It is not necessary to cover your entire shoulder to achieve a demure and sophisticated look. Wearing an on-the-shoulder sleeve instantly adds at least 10 years to your gorgeous face. I understand that you need to feel comfortable in your attire, but, unfortunately, long gone are the days of column dresses with little matching jackets. That being said, there is something regal about a portrait neckline or a soft Juliet sleeve to finish off a mother’s look. There are also stunning boleros which achieve an amazing line for a woman. Lastly, for Jewish weddings, a shawl tied appropriately can make a rabbi happy. Or for a very religious woman, I can create a dress that has a seamless transition to a narrow sleeve line with no obvious indication that you have added sleeves to a strapless dress.

I offer all these options in my store, Andrea’s Couture, simply because there are no two women with the same exact needs. A little more or a little less coverage is something that can be easily achieved with my professional experience on your side. It is my #1 goal that every single mother feels her most beautiful while celebrating at the wedding and I stop at nothing to achieve this.

Long or Short?
I firmly believe that this is indicated by each individual event. Today’s bride is savvy and is adding personal touches to her event. If the bridesmaids are wearing short, then the mothers should wear short, too. If the bridesmaids are wearing long, the mothers should also wear long. Tea length (mid-calf) is not a happy middle-ground for a mother. She should wear short (at knee or just below knee) or long.

Now, this is not to say that a long dress has to have a dramatic train. It can simply touch the floor. I personally love to create a long dress for the affair because after the wedding, I can shorten it to cocktail length. This always helps in amortizing the purchase and allowing for future wear. In our boutique, we have many designs that we have created long and short to illustrate how amazing each can look.

To Match or Not to Match?
Many women unfortunately struggle with the color selection of the gown. A simple rule of thumb is that mothers should never match the wedding party or the other mother of the bride or groom, but rather they should complement the wedding party. A mother should never look like a glorified bridesmaid, and a mother should never blend in with her guests. Furthermore, the mother of the bride and mother of the groom should not wear the same color either.

There are some simple color choices. For example, if it’s a black and white wedding then the choice has been made for you. The other side of the coin is that there are some color choices that are more challenging. For example, I recently created a breathtaking mother-of-the-bride gown that was ballet pink with a combination of silver and pink beading for a charcoal and pale yellow wedding.

Here are some other scenarios: If the party is wearing Wisteria or lavender, the mothers can wear burgundy, royal purple, silver, charcoal gray, or navy. Or if the party is wearing nude/champagne, mothers can choose sage green, gold, dark reds, rusts, bronze, or chocolate.

In the past when searching for a gown, women have been forced to pick between a few mainstream colors such as navy, chocolate, green or champagne. With over 150 colors in each gown, Andrea’s Couture never limits your options.

  • Bethany Thomas says:

    Great article and gorgeous gowns! It answered so many questions moms ask -thanks for answering!